Digital wedding invitations
Your wedding invitation, sent as a link with each guest’s name on the envelope, texted from your own phone or emailed. Guests open it in any phone’s browser, with no app and no account, and answer by name with their meal choice. You see every yes, maybe and no as it comes in, with kids counted on their own and a head count ready for the caterer.
When to send it
Send wedding invitations six to eight weeks before the wedding, and up to three months ahead for a destination wedding. Set the RSVP-by date three to four weeks before the day, so there’s time for the caterer’s count and the seating chart.
Who to invite
Everyone who got a save-the-date, addressed to exactly who’s invited: by name, or with “and guest” if they may bring someone. One invitation per couple or family keeps their answers together.
Wording to borrow
Together with their families Sam & Alex invite you to celebrate their marriage
Maya & Jordan are getting married! Ceremony at four, dinner and dancing to follow
The pleasure of your company is requested at the marriage of Elena & Ray
More ideas, with your names filled in: wording ideas.
Tips
- Ask each person a question with the menu as the choices (“Chicken, Fish, Veggie”), and letsparty has every guest pick a meal with their RSVP.
- Set how many guests each invitation can bring (0 turns plus-ones off) and the venue’s limit; past it, letsparty puts new yeses on a waitlist you let in when a spot opens.
- Mailing paper to a few relatives? Mark their answers yourself when they call, so every RSVP stays in one count.
Designs for it
All wedding designs →
How letsparty helps
RSVPs by name, with meal choices
Each guest says who’s coming and picks a meal; kids are counted on their own, and plus-ones can be limited, turned off, or given to one guest at a time. How →
No app for your guests
Every household gets its own link, texted from your phone or emailed. It opens in any browser, greets them by name and takes their answer in a few taps. How →
A head count the venue can use
Set the room’s limit and late yeses join a waitlist; give the caterer a live link with the head count and meals, no names. How →
Every guest’s photos, together
A QR sign on each table puts everyone’s photos on one wall, with a slideshow for the reception screen. How →
For couples
One price for your whole wedding
The Wedding plan is $199. It lasts from the day you start until three months after the wedding, however long the engagement, and moves if the date does. It covers the wedding, any party you make around it, and every other party you host until then, with no limit on invites. After that it renews as a regular Host Pass at $99 a year; cancel any time before it renews.
- The wedding$199
- Engagement party, if you have oneIncluded
- Shower, if you have oneIncluded
- Bachelorette or bachelor party, if you have oneIncluded
- Rehearsal dinner, if you have oneIncluded
- Farewell brunch, if you have oneIncluded
- The wedding websiteIncluded
- Thank-you cards afterIncluded
Launch prices are being finalized.
See the Wedding planQuestions
When should you send wedding invitations?
Six to eight weeks before the wedding, or up to three months ahead for a destination wedding. Ask for RSVPs three to four weeks before the day.
Is it okay to send wedding invitations by text?
Yes. Digital invitations are widely accepted for weddings, and a text from your own number is one guests recognize and open. Mail paper to anyone who’d rather have a card.
How do you say “no kids” on a wedding invitation?
Address the invitation only to the adults who are invited; that’s the polite signal. If you want to say it outright, a kind line in the details works: “We love your little ones, but this is an adults-only celebration.”