Bachelorette party invitations
A night out or a whole weekend away with the bride’s closest friends. One invitation holds the plan, the cost per person and who’s coming, so nobody has to scroll the group chat for the address.
When to send it
Plan it one to two months before the wedding, not the week of. Send invitations six to eight weeks ahead for a trip, since people need to book travel, or three to four weeks ahead for a night out, and set the RSVP-by date for when deposits are due.
Who to invite
The bridesmaids and the bride’s close friends, all of them people invited to the wedding. Sisters and future sisters-in-law are a kind addition; the bride gets the final say.
Wording to borrow
Last fling before the ring! Priya’s bachelorette weekend Pack a swimsuit and comfy shoes
Bride squad, assemble A night out for Elena’s bachelorette Dinner, dancing and matching sashes
Before she says “I do” Join us for Maya’s bachelorette brunch Mimosas, games and a few good stories
More ideas, with your names filled in: wording ideas.
Tips
- Not sure which weekend works? Send a date poll first; letsparty lets everyone mark the dates they can do, and one update tells them all when you pick.
- Write the cost per person in the details (the house, the activities, a shared dinner), so guests say yes knowing what they’re in for; letsparty doesn’t collect money, so say how you’ll settle up.
- Renting a house? Only invited guests see the address: it’s on each guest’s own link, never on the party’s public page.
Designs for it
All bachelorette designs →
How letsparty helps
RSVPs by name, with meal choices
Each guest says who’s coming and picks a meal; kids are counted on their own, and plus-ones can be limited, turned off, or given to one guest at a time. How →
No app for your guests
Every household gets its own link, texted from your phone or emailed. It opens in any browser, greets them by name and takes their answer in a few taps. How →
A head count the venue can use
Set the room’s limit and late yeses join a waitlist; give the caterer a live link with the head count and meals, no names. How →
Every guest’s photos, together
A QR sign on each table puts everyone’s photos on one wall, with a slideshow for the reception screen. How →
For couples
One price for your whole wedding
The Wedding plan is $199. It lasts from the day you start until three months after the wedding, however long the engagement, and moves if the date does. It covers the wedding, any party you make around it, and every other party you host until then, with no limit on invites. After that it renews as a regular Host Pass at $99 a year; cancel any time before it renews.
- The wedding$199
- Engagement party, if you have oneIncluded
- Shower, if you have oneIncluded
- Bachelorette or bachelor party, if you have oneIncluded
- Rehearsal dinner, if you have oneIncluded
- Farewell brunch, if you have oneIncluded
- The wedding websiteIncluded
- Thank-you cards afterIncluded
Launch prices are being finalized.
See the Wedding planQuestions
Who plans the bachelorette party?
The maid of honor usually leads, with help from the bridesmaids. The bride gets a say in the guest list and the kind of party she wants.
Who pays for the bachelorette party?
Guests usually cover their own costs and split the bride’s share between them. Write the cost per person in the invitation’s details, so nobody is surprised.
How far in advance should you send bachelorette party invitations?
Six to eight weeks ahead for a trip, and three to four weeks ahead for a night out in town.